Hi Sarah,

I understand what you are going through. I agree with you and Kelsi that you follow your gut instinct. There must have been enough wrong for you to back away. This could be you needing to sort things out, or him or both of you. Or, you’re just not meant to be together.

I had one such situation and I gave it a go. I tried hard to make it work and after much trying and communication we broke up. I had another situation where my gut took over and led me away early on. Both were tough but in the end, I’m better off. A long-term success was my marraige of more than 20 years. My gut was in. Eventually she kicked my butt out – ouch – but hey I call 20+ years and two beautiful kids a win. 🙂

Big blue

• This reply was modified 10 years, 3 months ago by Big blue.