Inky, I always love your responses!! I jsut wanted to know that I wasn’t crazy. Ex and I are ok. We really don’t interact much on Facebook other than liking each other’s posts. Maybe a comment once in a while. Ex and I have known each other for a long time – since we were 15. We dated in high school. We went on a couple of dates when we were 22. We dated again about 6 years ago but it was bi-coastal and for various reasons didn’t work out. I was mad and him and then he was mad at me but through it all we remained friends and still care for one another; and up until he started dating her seriously we still talked occasionally. I really miss him. Anyway, just know that I agree with every point you are making. I don’t know how I would have reacted if the shoe were on the other foot so to speak. I agree about keeping myself busy this coming Saturday. I was not invited to the wedding – but then again, I really didn’t want to be. That would have been hard. Anyway, I like the don’t facebook them for at least a year idea. Thanks for taking the time to give me your thoughts. I really appreciate it!