Hi Sandy,

I can relate to your situation. There was a time after my marriage ended that I thought I had to find a way to wish for the same things with my ex wife. I couldn’t do it and I felt that it was going to hold me back as a person. I don’t wish love and happiness on my ex, and while she has made things difficult for me and our kids, I don’t hate her. Sometimes, I can’t stand her so I try to deal with her as little as possible. Other than that, she is a non-issue in my life.

Inky is right about this. Don’t worry about wishing your ex well. Think about how to feel good about yourself. I’ve missed that point too many times myself.

Take care 🙂