He didn’t want a girlfriend, he wanted an unpaid, psychic licensed therapist to hold his hand. Oh my goodness, it sounds too much like “work”! Where’s the fun? The romance? Yes, support each other in hard times, but it shouldn’t be a guessing game! You know, I like it when other people make my decisions for me! By breaking up with you, he actually made one of your eventual decisions! Think of it that way. His mistake was your favor. When you are in a new, healthy relationship you’ll see what I mean.