Together but separate certainly doesn’t work
Unfortunately I know all to well that one person doing all the work …there wasn’t anything I wouldn’t have been willing to try. It comeS to the point that you have to be willing to step back… have an affair with yourself!! And find what makes you happy. Yoga and meditation are the best way to go within and truly discover yourself. I was Skeptical of a therapist at first as I had practiced yoga for 18 yrs I knew myself well. My ex dropped out after a few sessions. People sometimes don’t want to confront there pasts! (Usually where the problem is) the therapist was spot on (as I learned from her other ex mother in law). History repeats! I continued to divorce therapy. It went south fast in my situation. I encourage patents! I wish I had such a positive site such as this when I was in the thick of it! I had studied and practiced Tibetan Buddhism (taboo 2 her) I certainly believe that Buddhism and Christianity complement one another! And to find the more spiritual aspects of marriage witch are so easily overlooked in the hustle and bustle. At any rate be present, love yourself, be happy, let him know your there, and let your light shine! People can only be in the dark for so long.
Wishing you the best