Hi buildingconfidence,
Usually in relationships the BF or DH will make a point of looking away or not saying anything when they see another girl. And when they’re not with you they will not flirt or lead someone on!
It is not YOU, sweetheart. You are normal. It is HIM!
He gets a kick out of how jealous you are over him and wants to playfully “keep you in your place” whenever he wants an ego boost.
Do you want to know what will happen if you gain confidence, lose weight, work out and/or dress up to look “more attractive”? This is what will happen: He is the one who will suddenly get insecure! When your “mate value” goes up you could get the choice of the bar. He will hate that, he may get mean to you and NOT want you to grow your hair long/put makeup on/etc.
Gain Confidence by Dating People who Build you Up,
Inky
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