@ Sunflower

I am going to have to read your message a couple of times because it really is help and considers many perspective i need to look at. I understand he has valid reason for his action because I have communication problems myself I need to sort out and I fail to think of consequences or how he might react to certain situation like my guy friend bringing me a gift. because I know my intentions I feel like he will know automatically that I mean no harm (yh i know stupid of me he is not psychic haha).
But then he talks to girls that like him but I have no problem with it because I know what kind of guy he is and he wouldn’t cheat. I definitely need to reflect on this situation more.

@Inky

Exactly I think it’s something we both need to come to grounds with, instead of just me understanding his situation.