I’m sorry to hear that so many beautiful people out there are suffering from the same situation. I hope the responses you found on this thread have given you some peace like they helped me. I’ve had a really busy week at work and haven’t had time to think about my situation. Ha! Sometimes being too busy with work is a blessing. When I thought about him earlier this evening all I felt was love. Yes, I am incredibly hurt and sad, but I wish him love and peace and hope that he is able to grow and overcome the limitations that he has put on his mind and his heart. He said that he was struggling with identity issues having grown up in a multicultural household (parents from different European countries) and that he didn’t want to add any further complexity to that. And I believe him. Maybe he was being really heroic and wanted me to find someone from my faith so I wouldn’t have to deal with challenges. Maybe he met someone new. Whatever it is, I send him love. I trust that life is a mystery and sometimes you just have to be comfortable with that rather than drive yourself crazy wondering why and what could have been. If we’re meant to be together we will find each other again, if not, then I just have to accept that too.