I’m so sorry to hear about your heart break. It’s a big deal to finally find a connection and then have it ripped away. As difficult as this may seem, I would recommend changing your focus. Instead of being concerned about how unfair this all is or being afraid about your prospective future and reliving your heart break every time something reminds you of it, you need to take a step back and try to remove yourself from the situation. It is vital that you take some time to acknowledge that the ties have been broken, to mourn the loss of what you had and what could have been, and to begin healing your wounds. “Having faith that everything will work out in the future” is not just an expression, it is an action word. You have to actively choose to believe that there is a plan or a destiny waiting for you. This allows you to see how each difficulty that you encounter is something to learn from and something that will guide you towards a sweeter and much better life… or relationship. We all live through heart break at one point or another, and it can be emotionally and physically devastating, but when you work through situations like these, you will always come out stronger and more aware. I just have one suggestion to caution you against, because I’ve seen so so many people do this and it is destructive and will never get you to into a happy, loving relationship. Don’t build a wall around your heart to protect yourself from ever getting hurt again, it is counterproductive because it will not only keep the jerks out, it will keep all the good guys out. I truly hope that you find healing and happiness soon!