Hi Hyo,

OK, I lived in the suburbs BUT within walking distance of Main Street. For you, get something within walking distance of the train station. My experience was awesome and wonderful. YES, there was a real sense of community! NO, not stifled! As for the house size, believe me, once he sees how much upkeep of a house is, he will compromise on a medium sized one or even a small one! Especially if you pick something walking distance from town!

You can also compromise, like, live in the city until you have kids, then move to the suburbs. But then move back to a more cosmopolitan atmosphere when they’re grown. My husband SOO wants to move, but I’m all, “Where?” Am also ready to keep my part of the deal and will downsize (he likes small houses ~ think caves LOL) where he decides ~ WHEN the last kid has left the nest.

I know it’s not easy, but it could be worse ~ think decorating!!

Good Luck,

Inky

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