Hm. It’s a bit of chrystal ball gazing, this one, but I’ll have a go. Her freaking out given the situation is understandable, and not necessarily a bad sign. You guys not talking since might be of some concern. It’s not clear to me whether you’ll be moving in together in this new city, or be separately based. I’d say it’s not a great idea to move in together, at this stage. Be around each other in a more normal situation for a longer while, so you can feel out how you’d be living together.

I’m afraid being crazy about someone isn’t necessarly a sign you’ll work well together. Hope, but don’t count on it.

I do hope things work out, and best of luck to you both.