Helen,

First we must examine you, the relationship, and C.

From reading the text, I can conclude that your feelings for C are very strong. The question is, do you love yourself as much as you love him? Are you looking for something in him that you are unable to give to yourself? Do you love yourself? The only reason why I ask this is because everything can be found within the self. If you are looking for another person to fulfill your expectations, you must reevaluate where you are standing. Look in the “love and relationships” section, under “BLOG.” There you should be able to find articles that can help you understand where you are at.

Now let’s move to the situation.

In life, we all need to learn certain lessons and those lessons never go away until they are fulfilled. With this said, look at the last 5 romantic relationships you have had, write down what was good about these relationships. Then write what was bad and finally, for each write the reasons that led to separation. I can assure you that there is a cycle and it keeps repeating itself, and if it is not repeating itself, then the situation might have already served it’s purpose. Once we learn the lesson we have to keep moving, there is so much more to be learned in life, getting stuck is simply unfavorable.

Now let’s move to C.

Is he playing the victim? Are you giving him too much power? Now that he knows you are interested, is he playing hard to get? I will say this, once you meet that person that changes your life, their eyes are unmistakable. The eyes are the gateway to the soul. Make sure that you are in communication with him and over a period of time assess his actions. Do they seem genuine? What do you feel? Also, don’t reach out to him every week, do it say, once a month. But, I will tell you this, your intuition is the most powerful tool you have. Listen to it. Also learn to discern the messages. You can use your intuition, but how do you differentiate between a “Yes” or a “No”? One thing you could do is to be aware of your feelings as much as possible. What happens when you see a lost baby reunited with his mother, how do you feel, what do you feel? What about when you see terrible news on TV? Differentiate these feelings. All the advice in the world, at this stage cannot help you. I say this because we are all different and everyone experiences things on different energetic levels. I hope I have helped.

Thanks,

Sanchez