Matt,

I just didnt want to write 5 pages worth of details so here is the info on that. THe reason for waiting not being an option is because we have already put this off for 2 years due to fears she has. We are both getting up there in age and I dont want to be raising a child when Im 50. I would like to be able to keep up with a young child as Im sure you can understand.

I have already listened to her fears and have tried counselling (Currently in counsel) along with helping her through her fears. But I appreciate the feedback.

Denise,

Thanks for the feedback also. Im kinda leaning in that direction, just worried about raising a child with constant fighting or maybe thats just how couples raise kids? My parents fought all the time when I was growing up.