Hi wayfinder,
Ugh, this is why I hate FaceBook. Like, IRL, in the old days, you would never go on a double date and then proceed to call 100 of your closest friends and tell them about it. I think it should be used for Private Messaging, saying “Happy Birthday” and to tell everyone about something that matters (moving, job change, engagement, etc.). But no matter what you post, someone’s going to be unhappy. This time it’s you. (I hate when it’s me getting upset over a FB post!!).
What I would do is “Hide” him on social media and take what he posts/says at face value. If he doesn’t say, “I like you” and writes “Hang in there!” assume he really means “Hang in there!”
He might also still look at you as a wounded bird of sorts. Maybe a “Thanks for all your help! I’m fine now, but thanks!” Show him an independent streak, or shoo him away a little.
OK, Good Luck!
Inky
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