Dear Zita:
I think that it is not fair, not right for a young person, only in mid twenties, to be financially responsible for parents and others (siblings?) You should be living YOUR OWN life, not be burdened with taking care of others. You should be making and spending money on yourself, on promoting your best interest, not others’.

Isn’t the part of you that knows this- says: why should i get out of bed- why should i work when it is not MY best interest i am working for? We are animals, organisms and like ALL organisms, we are biologically motivated to promote our best interest. We are biologically motivated to do for others only when it is a Win-Win situation for us. It is TIRING, exhausting, depressing to work AGAINST our best interest.

What do you think???

Take care:
anita