Hi Anita, without living through what I did it must seem like most of my comments are assumptions, but they are indeed the truth. The young man was an opportunist – he used to admit living off of his girlfriend’s money and thought it was cool – but I was just too much in the grief cycle to see clearly.

I don’t want to write volumes to justify my feelings, but having gone through them, they are valid observations, and I was unfortunate enough to have picked the wrong person to trust. There are lots of kind people out there but I will be more cautious who I befriend in the future.