Hi redcar,

I agree with Axuda who has given you good advice above – usually when one partner cheats, it is THE END of the relationship !

I would NOT tell your ex about it – you have broken up already, and you will end up hurting him more if he truly loved you – if he finds out on his own, then that is fate !!

It seems you still love him and deep inside may want to get back with him – if so, you need to clear that in your conscious self first.

Hope you find peace !

GOD bless !!