Dear daniella2404:

You asked if you are doing anything wrong- well not to him. When I wrote that sacrifice is often not a virtue- I meant at the least it is not good for your own good. Always take care of yourself first. If you didn’t share your troubles with him- then it wouldn’t be the right thing for you. If you share with him and he responds with such self centerdness and lack of caring as you describe, then you are doing something wrong if you stay with him or pursue him further.

From what you describe it will be the wrong thing FOR YOU to wait for him even though you feel love for him. Look for a loving man next, a man to whom you matter no less than he matters to you.

Take care and have a good semester starting October.

anita