Hey Pink – thanks for your reply. Love that Maya quote.. yes its so true. I will have to rethink the serious relationship bit. Perhaps he is not. I stay because his actions sometimes show otherwise, which add to the confusion. And yeah, your so right – hey some people get divorced after years just because things just change. Scary thought but it happens. Thanks for your words.

Hi Anita – I will do that when I get the chance. I never thought of it from that aspect, just ask why in a non-judgmental way. I trying to be patient and see things how they are as they come and if its not working so be it. What else can one do? Anyway, thanks much for your reply!