Hi Inky,

I laughed so hard at your friend making a spread sheet. I think that takes too much effort and quite a bit of stalking. I think I’d rather sit around and watch. Those are all great ideas, but I really would like a kiss now and then. HAHA There are many people who are interested in me, but I am not attracted to them. The people who I am attracted to, I never seem to get their attention? Not sure what’s happening. I also have a more extraverted personality when it comes to guys. Now, I’m a little bit more introverted and it just isn’t helping me meet anyone or move things a long. How is this stuff supposed to work? I’m afraid of “doing too much” and then not having the other person care or it being one sided. I am glad that i’m not the only one waiting around to run into someone :p I like flirting with guys, but it seems as if I just seem to intimidate the shy ones and scare them away and the more extraverted/athletic guys I can’t be flirty/open with? I like the athletes. lolz.

Hi Anita,

I do want to be loved, but I’m afraid of coming on too strong. I have done this in the past. Don’t guys like the chase? I’m not sure how dating/attraction works.You are right, a need is a need and I’m happy to have finally discovered what my true need it. It went unmet in my last relationship. I will definitely look for more in my next one. I guess I can just get excited of all of the guys I can meet now and flirt with.