Remember that YOU have those fears – but no evidence to back it up. Maybe it’s a form of seperation anxiety from your daughter, but don’t interfere with the relationship of your child and her dad. Have you talked to him about it? Like REALLY sat him down, telling him you feel awful but you’re scared. His reaction will tell you a lot. Don’t be hurtful and don’t accuse him of anything. Just tell him how you feel things.

Maybe you should create your own post about this? I think there are a lot of young and also experienced parents on TinyBuddha – I’m sure they could help you further.