Dear Melissa:

Of course, you have way more information on your experiences and situation than I do. My comment is meant for you to examine a point,or not at all, to accept or reject it or think about it later.

If you decide to examine cheating as in What-is-Cheating and what HAPPENED in this case? Maybe an honest conversation with your ex bf is a good idea … but only if you are calm enough-

Examination will be possible if you are calm enough and not invested in anger at him, taht is if you are more CURIOUS than angry.

anita