Hey there!! I have heard something similar in the past 🙂 All I can say is – it hurts only if you love him more than yourself 🙂 🙂 You love yourself more than the need of the relationship or to keep him into your life! I have been there before, believe me – once you learn the lesson and empower yourself 🙂 you will attract only the best of people in your life 🙂 so take it from there and I would also suggest start doing something which you really enjoy doing! Dancing or painting 🙂 get back on track and finally be professional at work! You are there to make a career and tell yourself you deserve the best! Next time, don’t give too much 🙂 and don’t lose yourself in a relationship – this is what I learnt from my relationships that didn’t work! Hope this helps!!take care