Hi Anita,

Thank you for your reply once again. I understand what you say but it’s just that he and I cant be apart from each other yet we cant be together. Anita, if he was to only change a few things, it would be like a BRAND NEW life for us. I completed my schooling this year and have my convocation in a month…I do what him there, he was by me the whole time I was attending school and was always supportive, even drove me to school a few times in the winters when it was cold. He deserves my diploma just as much as I do. Further to your comment about letting go of attachments, how do I let go of the idea that I need him to change? 🙁

jj