Dear moonpedal:

Following you mentioning in your original post on this thread about posting etiquette I started a thread with that title, Posting Etiquette. I copied there the guidelines written by this Forum’s owner. You may want to read it.

Regarding your ex boyfriend, sometimes current in a sticky kind of way. “he gets brought back into my life somehow”= well, who brings him back and how? Maybe you can look at the WHO brings him back and the HOW and safeguard yourself against the WHO and the HOW and that way not have him back into your life…?

anita