Hi ameliau,

Let me get this straight ~ he hit you and you feel guilty for cheating?

Tell him (when he calls ~ they always do) that frankly, the relationship was OVER the minute he struck you!

That if there is no “relationship” because you “don’t DO abusive relationships” OF COURSE you found a better man. That it wasn’t hard. That ANY man is better than an abusive BOY.

That if he doesn’t like it, “why don’t you just come on over and TRY to hit me again? Oh, but you can’t, can you? Because the guy I ‘cheated’ on you with WON’T LET YOU!”

SO MAD for you right now!!!

No Guilt. NONE. Go out, guilt free, EVEN WITH the other guy!!

Blessings,

Inky

P.S. Take self-defense classes. DO! It’s hard for someone to have physical power over you when their azz is on the floor. Physical abuse is a deal breaker. Think of it as, you cheated on him subconsciously BECAUSE you wanted to get rid of the abuse. It worked!! Don’t look back.

• This reply was modified 9 years ago by Inky.