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Hi Rose,
People are like magpies (they like bright and shiny things) or they’re like dogs and cats (can pick up someone’s energy).
I was just like you. But as soon as I put on jewelry or dressed in fashionable clothes, makeup, nails, etc. the people already close to me felt threatened, “Where are YOU going, Inky? Work??” or “WHERE are you GOING???” or “Where are YOU going?” LOL. BUT the people who didn’t really know me ~ all of a sudden, they wanted to talk to me!! I am an introvert, so jeans and t-shirts for me, please!
Or it’s your energy/vibe. Try smiling, being helpful, being the first person to speak up, ask someone if they want anything, pretend you’re the hostess of the event or the owner of the room. Ask, “Do you need help?” the next time someone gives you a weird look. Other lines are, “Are you lost?” “You look lost, can I help you?” Or, “Do you want to sit here?” That changes the script!
Just experiment every day! Pretty soon you won’t need tips or tricks to help you, nor will you care! Strangers are overrated anyway! Stay with the people who love you and stick to the Light!
Blessings,
Inky