Dear Annie:

This is what I read in your first paragraph: “I have a religious family and my mother has forced me to date other men. I was even forced to sleep with one of the men I went on a date with. After my mother found out I had depression and was in therapy, she still made me go out with this man again…Sometimes she told me we were going to one place and ended up in another place where a man was waiting for me…She chooses them because they are wealthy…I am threatened of being cut off of the family and finances by my mother.”

I don’t know how to write this… let me see: your mother forces you to have sex with wealthy men with threats.

This is what you wrote. In other words, your mother is pimping you, prostituting you.

Poor Annie, and you don’t see this to be so very, very wrong…? Poor Annie, I am so sorry.

I am speechless. I didn’t read the rest of your post because I can’t get over the first paragraph.

“Family, Graduation and Moving Out” is the title. Do move out and fast!

(This may be a crime, what she is doing…)

Leave!

I suggested you leave before I read about THIS. But you said you don’t want to give up the material benefits at “home” – this was months ago.

Leave!

anita