Dear Anonymous:

Welcome back! I wish there was a third option. I don’t remember the details but moving in with your family didn’t sound like a good idea for me then… was it codependency (I could re-read past threads but it is late for me tonight).

I wish there was a third option.

But of the two, I personally prefer the city.. (but it is not me writing the thread!)except for the pollution, as I remember…

Can you tell me again about your relationship at home, how it would be like if you did go back? And… could there be a THIRD option to shoot for?

anita