Thanks Inky, I agree!

Hi Juanita,
Thank you for your reply and he wants to do it every 3 months or so, but to cut a long story short, he has broke the marriage but abusing alcohol and doing this to me a number of times and we have worked o respiring the marriage and now he has bought it up again and I will not accept this in my life again.
There is no lack of trust my end and yes there is issues going on with him as he turns to alcohol to masks his emotions and yes he thinks I am a nag and that I control him, which I don’t I ask for respect in my marriage and seeing as he has disrespected me so many times with drinking I will not accept this in my life no more.
Basically he is very selfish and wants to do what he wants to do regardless on who he hurts as he has control issues.