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Yes I hope so too! They have already told me to leave him and don;t look back and if only it was easy said than done!
My biggest regret is I should of left a long time ago and I’m sorry I believed he would change.
He told me he will never be the person I want him to be and has try to change and ultimately that isn’t him!
I am so angry and hurt! Be the person I want hi mt one ? What loving and attentive to his wife?
He is a selfish spoilt child, and life has to revolve around him, just like his whole family, they have to be cents of attention.
Oh I wish I never met him and I wish I left 3 years ago and never looked back!
He will never move out of the house as he is materialistic and thinks why should he as he pays for it at the moment as I am currently not working!
Yes it will be very tough around each other and that is what I am dreading and cannot handle as we separated two years ago for 3 months living in the same house and it was really hard for me as he would just go out drinking and not come home.
I have never felt so hurt and betrayed by someone as much in my life as he has done to me and I am normally a person that if you screw me over more than once then you are out of my life for good and somehow I can;t seem to break this emotional attachment I have to him, but I know I have to as he will never change.
Deep down I am hoping he will wake up from his self destructive life, but I know that won’t happen as I have waited long enough for him to do so.
I can’t help someone who doesn’t want to change and to scared too as too sacred to face his demons.
My heart is broken and of I had a place to go now I would. I pray and ask the universe to help me out of this situation but they don’t seem to be listening and I fell hopeless and am digging deep to find the strength to process this and move on with my life