Hi Courtney,

It looks like you’ve made a decision already and it sounds like a good one. I mean, do you really want to commit to someone who is hot and cold, afraid to commit and have no idea what they want? It’s also interesting that you note his behavior changed after being physically intimate. It could be a coincidence but you have to admit the timing is a bit odd.

The foundation of all relationship is trust and it sounds like you can no longer trust him due to the way he behave.