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Sweet Cath
I have felt that same weakness and would try again too. And get hurt, but not lonely, then realized I felt more alone because he really was a stranger–not the person who I imaginary loved.
If you know in your heart of hearts he is not good for you-try thinking of it this way. Not saying it will work for you–but it used to help me.
The person I thought he was does not exist. The heart and soul I hoped he had is really not in this person. The traits I thought this person had that I needed I will develop in myself–loyal, kind, thoughtful, a person who is there for their friends. Add strengths you admire–make them yours.
Make an affirmation say it at least once a day (I have to say it a few times) You can use mine until you make yours or forever.
“I am proud of myself today, My body and soul is strong, healthy and beautiful. I am creative and intelligent. I am kind to myself and others. I am rich in my blessings. I claim my day.”
If you feel strength knowing there are people who are thinking of you, pulling for you, saying prayers or affirmations–take a deep breath and feel better.
Seaisland