Hi dom,

Maybe it’s a simple solution: “Show me don’t tell me”. Because when we try to put these feelings into words, let’s face it, it CAN sound cheesy!! Maybe a head noogie or a punch on the shoulder, or an “I love you guys!!” while you put ice cubes down their back would be more this crowd’s speed. You know?

Like when my friend’s mother died, instead of saying “I’m here for you, whenever you need me, call anytime, I love you” I said, “We got you,” while giving her a bear hug.

Best,

Inky