I agree with Eris. And, mentally, men tend to separate love and sex to a much greater degree than woman…to the point of complete separation at times. So, if you’re thinking having sex with this man will eventually, somehow, lead to aromantic love relationship with him you are likely going to be disappointed time and time again. It’s also very likely nothing to do with YOU specifically. He’s in a place in his life where he’s not available emotionally anyway. Especially if he’s threatened you that he’ll have sex with other women if you say no.

My advice is to, no matter how much it hurts, cut off all contact with him. Work on figuring out what YOU want in a relationship. Picture it in your mind without attaching it to a specific man. Then, focus on other things and go out and have fun (not sex) with a few guys. You’ll be surprised at how much that will attract the right people to you.

I hope that helps a little. It’s just lessons from my personal experience.