Dear Nan:

I like your input above: yes, it does make sense to me, it being convenient and comfortable for him… not very loving after all, is it? Not very loving to choose his comfort zone over her well being. Hmmm.. good point. And the fact that she withers away till death instead of… well instead of opening that truck door for one, and then not looking for Robert more actively… yes, that sucks big time, in my mind, now that I am thinking about it. She’s been submissive BIG TIME, submissive to social conventions and in so doing, choosing to be blind to reality, blind to the real nature of her husband’s love for one.

You wrote that you are “waiting for the epiphany from the universe to enlighten (you) as to WHEN…”

What is the nature of the epiphany you are waiting for?

anita