Dear Andy:

I don’t know if this is the time for further reflection into what might be “just me”- or Just Andy. I don’t know if this is the right time for further reflection into your past, other than the relationship you are grieving. So to find out more about your feeling that you were betrayed and what that means.

Let me know if you’d like to examine it sometime in the future, when you are calm, capable and interested. My main concern is that you do what needs to be done to be good to yourself during this difficult time!

anita