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  • January 31, 2023 at 2:42 am #414783
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    Thank you for the empathy and thoughtfulness in the answers you have provided. Am extremely grateful to you all. I will possibly do something to help him as much as I can by keeping him in my  prayers. I still believe he is a genuine person. I am not interested in dating. Let me focus on my profession and personal wellbeing.

    May God bless you all. Please close this thread for good.

    January 30, 2023 at 2:34 am #414729
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    Also let me clarify. I was in India when he was chatting with me. He said that he will marry me once he gets his divorce. I moved overseas in August

    January 30, 2023 at 12:17 am #414728
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    I agree with you. He always is emotionally unavailable . He goes to victim mode and blames others. He needs to self reflect and work on himself before he gets in to a new relationship. I am trying to look at things from his perspective. Am wondering why he is in a matrimonial site awaiting divorce and proposing marriage to other women when his divorce is dragging for long. After proposing marriage to me he is still in the matrimonial site. Do you think he is worth my time? But somewhere I have developed some attachment to him. I believe I can take care of him well and have lot of sympathy for him.

    January 29, 2023 at 7:21 pm #414720
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    Thank you for the replies. He was desperate to get married to me. He was pursuing me and I felt he needs my help. I was reluctant and told him he is still married and I can be friends with him but he wouldn’t agree. I think I have some soul connection with him and I want to be part of his life so I can help him with. I don’t know. May be what I have is sympathy and I also felt that my options are limited given my life situation and the horoscopes matched. Mine is a complicated horoscope. I had only arranged marriages. I don’t do dating. Now am in a different country. Was in an abusive marriage  previously. Know that he is not abusive. May be am ready to settle for crumbs people throw. He also said that am filled with negativity and depression and am feeding him that. I am alone and also lost my mother to cancer and I have mild depression. May be I repelled him with my constant complaints.

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