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April 15, 2023 at 6:42 am in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417411
EricParticipantI also cant stand the fact that i’ll have to introduce her to my friends… this is my first relationship… im not ready…
what should i do… i feel like running away from all this…
April 15, 2023 at 6:30 am in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417410EricParticipantDear zenith
I’m so regretting in posting that pic, like i regret it so much….
If only i trust her fully that time, i wouldnt expose my relationship… now i regret it so much…
April 12, 2023 at 4:53 am in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417255EricParticipantMaybe it’s just i can accept the fact that my decision has caused people to know im in a relationship…
i wanna go back into people not knowing im in a relationship, that’s why im stuck with the regret..
April 12, 2023 at 4:16 am in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417253EricParticipantDear roberta,
Well i’ve always been anxious and filled with overthinking & anxious thoughts since i was still in highschool… now i’m in my early 20s….
But right now my main anxious thoughts is about this fear of me ruining my relationship with that girl….
April 11, 2023 at 10:23 pm in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417247EricParticipantThank you roberta,
u can ignore my messages if u feel like im repeating the same thing over and over again…
i just wanna tell what’s inside my mind:
Actually all of these is due to one thing…
I regret showing to everyone im in a relationship…That’s it….And i know i cant change regret, so its frustrating that my mind keeps going in a loop… i’m trying to find ways to get my old life back but idk how…before people know about my relationship, i feel free, i feel peaceful… as i have no pressure and i can focus on my work…. But now i dont feel that freedom anymore… due to the bad effects that i know this decision would give…April 10, 2023 at 11:13 pm in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417233EricParticipantBefore i post that pic i prayed to god first, so i made the right decision…
but turns out it was wrong…
why does god have to make things difficult for me… it isnt easy for me to get this relationship…
April 10, 2023 at 9:22 pm in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417232EricParticipantDear roberta,
do u think what i’m experiencing here is relationship anxiety?
but isnt it me just trying my best to protect the relationship from harm? I’ve been waiting for these kind of relationship and she’s my dream girl… i dont wanna lose this relationship…
tbh when i post that pic i feel happy, as i also want to be like every one else who’s able to share their happy moments to everyone…
but i also need to be realistic, that i’m not a guy with that high status, and my appearance isnt good, so the chance to get snatched away is very high, therefore i feel like keeping our relationship hidden is the best way… and when we’re near marriage, then i’ll show the relationship… as its already secured…
April 10, 2023 at 6:09 am in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417148EricParticipantThank you roberta for the zen story video on youtube, it was quite helpful.. although it didnt erase the issues im having here, but indeed it helps..
Thank you so much 🙏
April 10, 2023 at 5:54 am in reply to: I really really desperately need help, i cant take this anymore #417147EricParticipantDear roberta,
May i know why in ur opinion that my decisions arent the problem?
Like isnt it safer for my relationship if i keep hiding it until the right time, as it will also reduce most of the negative possibilities in the future…
February 18, 2023 at 6:08 pm in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415615EricParticipantHi helcat,
I’ve emailed you… my email has a “smith” name in it…
February 17, 2023 at 8:12 pm in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415542EricParticipantI desparately in need of help right now…
Feeling very very devastated….
Because my insecurities got triggered, i didnt realize i look short in that pic until i take a look a few times…. I was too obsessed in making a decision whether to post the relationship or not…
It all ends, all my efforts all these years to make myself look tall, it all go to waste…
February 17, 2023 at 7:06 pm in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415541EricParticipantOr it’s fine by you contacting through email?
February 17, 2023 at 7:02 pm in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415540EricParticipantIs there any way we can talk besides imgur?
If by email, i’m afraid i’d be spaming mails 😅
February 17, 2023 at 3:45 pm in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415539EricParticipantThere’s no mail to verify the account.
February 17, 2023 at 11:05 am in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415533EricParticipantWhy cant i saw the messages?
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