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    I also cant stand the fact that i’ll have to introduce her to my friends… this is my first relationship… im not ready…

    what should i do… i feel like running away from all this…

    Eric
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    Dear zenith

    I’m so regretting in posting that pic, like i regret it so much….

    If only i trust her fully that time, i wouldnt expose my relationship… now i regret it so much…

    Eric
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    Maybe it’s just i can accept the fact that my decision has caused people to know im in a relationship…

    i wanna go back into people not knowing im in a relationship, that’s why im stuck with the regret..

    Eric
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    Dear roberta,

     

    Well i’ve always been anxious and filled with overthinking & anxious thoughts since i was still in highschool… now i’m in my early 20s….

    But right now my main anxious thoughts is about this fear of me ruining my relationship with that girl….

    Eric
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    Thank you roberta,

     

    u can ignore my messages if u feel like im repeating the same thing over and over again…

     

    i just wanna tell what’s inside my mind:

     

    Actually all of these is due to one thing…

    I regret showing to everyone im in a relationship…
    That’s it….
    And i know i cant change regret, so its frustrating that my mind keeps going in a loop… i’m trying to find ways to get my old life back but idk how…
    before people know about my relationship, i feel free, i feel peaceful… as i have no pressure and i can focus on my work…. But now i dont feel that freedom anymore… due to the bad effects that i know this decision would give…
    Eric
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    Before i post that pic i prayed to god first, so i made the right decision…

    but turns out it was wrong…

    why does god have to make things difficult for me… it isnt easy for me to get this relationship…

    Eric
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    Dear roberta,

    do u think what i’m experiencing here is relationship anxiety?

    but isnt it me just trying my best to protect the relationship from harm? I’ve been waiting for these kind of relationship and she’s my dream girl… i dont wanna lose this relationship…

     

     

    tbh when i post that pic i feel happy, as i also want to be like every one else who’s able to share their happy moments to everyone…

    but i also need to be realistic, that i’m not a guy with that high status, and my appearance isnt good, so the chance to get snatched away is very high, therefore i feel like keeping our relationship hidden is the best way… and when we’re near marriage, then i’ll show the relationship… as its already secured…

    Eric
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    Thank you roberta for the zen story video on youtube, it was quite helpful.. although it didnt erase the issues im having here, but indeed it helps..

    Thank you so much 🙏

    Eric
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    Dear roberta,

    May i know why in ur opinion that my decisions arent the problem?

    Like isnt it safer for my relationship if i keep hiding it until the right time, as it will also reduce most of the negative possibilities in the future…

    in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415615
    Eric
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    Hi helcat,

    I’ve emailed you… my email has a “smith” name in it…

    in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415542
    Eric
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    I desparately in need of help right now…

    Feeling very very devastated….

    Because my insecurities got triggered, i didnt realize i look short in that pic until i take a look a few times…. I was too obsessed in making a decision whether to post the relationship or not…

    It all ends, all my efforts all these years to make myself look tall, it all go to waste…

    in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415541
    Eric
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    Or it’s fine by you contacting through email?

    in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415540
    Eric
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    Is there any way we can talk besides imgur?

    If by email, i’m afraid i’d be spaming mails 😅

    in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415539
    Eric
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    There’s no mail to verify the account.

    in reply to: Pls i beg, anyone help me with this every year issue of mine #415533
    Eric
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    Why cant i saw the messages?

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