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  • #304381

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    Just want to update you on the situation

    I gave her the space she must have, she approach and talk to her. It wasn’t so tense between us but it feels a little awkward and her attention span was shorter than used to. But I feel that it still takes time for us to be back to what it is.

    She has forgiven me. Even though she has forgiven me, she was convinced enough, I told her I will prove myself through action which she reply okay.

    I need to prove myself to her, no more heavy nonsense topic. Just light and simple topic anything under the sun.

    #303915

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    Sorry, there is a miscommunication. I didn’t bring out the heavy content nonsense. But instead I apologise to her. I asked her if she needs space and she replied: I guess.

    She is still replying to a few of my text and she did say hi to me in a few occasions.

    #303909

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    I have spoken to her in regards about the matter. It was a brief conversation. She is a little angry and sulking. She say she is tired of my heavy content nonsense. I asked her if she needs space and her reply is I guess.

    She seems so cold and distant towards me. When she talk to others, she is smiling but when towards me. There isn’t any smile from her. There is tension.

    #302869

    Mick
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    It is tiring for her in every aspects, I need to back off , let her cool it off.

    #302861

    Mick
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    It is not possible because the promise and trust has been scrutinise? But I still feel that it is possible to repair somehow.

    I am probably the last person on earth she wants to see.

    She is still very pissed off with me, I am giving her space. I don’t want to push her because she is pissed, she told me she is pissed and she has the right. I need to let her cool off

    I have not been a great friend to her with all these heavy nonsense.

    • This reply was modified 1 month, 1 week ago by  Mick.
    #302855

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    I am indeed foolish. I shouldn’t have bring up heavy nonsense topic again.

    I don’t know what I am doing. But I am seriously remorse about it. It is an important lesson that I should learn from, I cherish her so much as a friend.

    I am sincerely remorseful and apologetic about this matter. I seriously want to repair this friendship, I broke a promise and trust to her and I need to rebuild it again. Is it possible to repair this friendship?

    #302849

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    I told her that because we haven’t been talking much to each other, by telling her is because so that she knows what is happening that the issue is with me and not her.

    But she is so pissed because of what I told her and it is at an inappropriate timing. It wasn’t my intention to make her feel guilty. On my side, I didn’t handle the matter properly.

    I want to mend this friendship, it was my fault that I did this. Things is going well between us, getting back on track and I screwed it up.

    I don’t know what to do, I am sincerely remorseful and sorry for what I did. I want to mend this friendship. Perhaps she is angry and disappointed and probably I am the last person on earth she wants to talk to.

    I don’t know what to do, I am such a foolish man.

    #302685

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    I wasn’t surprised that she is angry. I think that her reaction will be sadness because it it hurting the friendship, angry because she said she is pissed off and annoyed because the same topic was being brought out.

    I promise not to hurt her again. I am leaving her alone for a few days to cool it off. She has the right to be pissed at me. It was my mistake which I shouldn’t had committed.

    It wasn’t her problem that I couldn’t face her, I shouldn’t have told her that and make her drown with me. I saw her at work yesterday, she never look me in the eyes, she is pissed and disappointed. I am not going to be pushy about this, I am going to let her cool it off before reaching out to her. But it is going to take time to repair the friendship.

    She is emotionally tired.

    #302501

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    Her reaction is she is very pissed. Actually what I told her was that I couldn’t face her at times because I am guilty over all the stupid things I did to her.

    Actually I think I can stop because I tried once and it works so probably I will be able to again.

    Do you think I have scrutinise the friendship?

    What should I do about this?

    #302491

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    Firstly, I cut down on texting her, even if I do text her, I will keep it light and easy and I will be the one ending the conversation.

    Recently, I told her that I couldn’t face her because of the heavy nonsense content that I used to tell her about.

    She got so pissed because I called her and told her about this but I told her that it was my fault to call her.

    She told me it wasn’t her problem and I shouldn’t make her drown with me.

    I told her because I was guilty.

    She told me before she doesn’t like me talking about all these heavy content stuff which makes her tired and draining.

    Everything seems fine but I screw it up again

    #302481

    Mick
    Participant

    Hello Michelle

    I want to update you that everything is fine, I texted her less and we had less conversation.

    But matter somehow got out of hand yesterday. She is pissed

    #301179

    Mick
    Participant

    Hello Michelle

    I do take longer walks when I need to clear my mind, to ponder or think about some stuff.

    I overheard her telling one of my colleagues some stuff, I am curious but I cannot approach her because she has the right to tell whatever she wants to anyone.

    I do feel disappointed because we used to share everything under the sun.

    We didn’t have much conversation too during work which is 3 hours of deployment but we didn’t even converse much.

    It might take some time for us to heal.

    • This reply was modified 1 month, 3 weeks ago by  Mick.
    #301021

    Mick
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    Hello Michelle

    I was too tense up with the misunderstanding, not able to loosen myself up, not giving enough space and with my grandpa death, the emotion feeling stacked up.

    I am coping better, starting to recover and back to my usual self.

    I just feel that one of my greatest strength and weakness is caring too much for others, always put others first.

     

    #301007

    Mick
    Participant

    Hello Michelle

    Her respond wasn’t the best.

    Actually I am getting better, whether she replies or not, she has the right to do so. Maybe it is because of me, no matter what it is, I will make it a point to reply others.

    But I cannot put my principle or expectation on others because people are different.

    #300999

    Mick
    Participant

    Hello Michelle
    Anita previous message doesn’t help, it is an insult. It all started with a misunderstanding between me and the lady and it has been escalated to being a disorder.I believe that this website or perhaps even this forum allows people to vent or say things that they couldn’t in life because they are rationale enough that they shouldn’t do all those in life situations. So is it even wrong to say whatever it is in this forum.

    I don’t have any similar struggles with other people.

    It is my first time getting involved in such situations, I believe that it is reasonable to ask such questions and if the questions are irrelevant, I am perfectly fine to receive any constructive criticism in regards to the questions I asked.

    “Wait for her to start a text conversation” , I don’t find that there is any wrong to it since we are giving space towards each other.

    • This reply was modified 1 month, 3 weeks ago by  Mick.
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