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    shikhar
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    @ anita: Thank you for your response.

    Pros:
    – She loves me
    – Career oriented, ambitious and smart: definitely fits in my social circle
    – Supportive and optimistic
    – Give me space (it was a long distance relationship, she didn’t have an option)
    – Trustworthy ( she never lies, I can blindly trust her)
    – Low emotional baggage
    – Fun to be with

    Cons:
    – We are completely opposite (zero common interest, I didn’t have anything common to talk to her)
    – Opposite family values ( I would find it hard to fit in to her family)
    – Lack of life experiences (initially found her very boring)
    – She is a single child and wants to be around her family, whereas my family has moved to US, so I would want to be with my family (She says she can’t plan for what will happen 10 years down the line)
    – I was with her because of the fear that I might not meet anyone like her rather than to be with her. Sometimes I used find it unnatural to say ‘I love you’

    #105889
    shikhar
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    Thank you everyone for your reply.

    @Akaash: I understand what you are trying to say.
    @Adam: Yeah, I did realise that I pushed away my goals, stopped working on them and wasnt there for myself. Thank you!
    @Inky: Thank you for your message. The long distance was straining me and I couldn’t focus on what i wanted in life. It was very difficult for me to commit to her within 6-7 months of long distance, while clearly wanting to move to another country for career.

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