@ anita: Thank you for your response.
Pros:
– She loves me
– Career oriented, ambitious and smart: definitely fits in my social circle
– Supportive and optimistic
– Give me space (it was a long distance relationship, she didn’t have an option)
– Trustworthy ( she never lies, I can blindly trust her)
– Low emotional baggage
– Fun to be with
Cons:
– We are completely opposite (zero common interest, I didn’t have anything common to talk to her)
– Opposite family values ( I would find it hard to fit in to her family)
– Lack of life experiences (initially found her very boring)
– She is a single child and wants to be around her family, whereas my family has moved to US, so I would want to be with my family (She says she can’t plan for what will happen 10 years down the line)
– I was with her because of the fear that I might not meet anyone like her rather than to be with her. Sometimes I used find it unnatural to say ‘I love you’