Dear Nicole:

From my experience, when your (extended) family doesn’t talk to you, it can be a good thing. It can be, if their influence on you was negative, if any one of them was hurting you before. Was that the case with any of them?

I wish you didn’t fight with your husband so much, that definitely takes away from your energy which is already taxed. And without a comforting partner in life, there is no one with whom you can energize yourself. It takes someone on your side, who listens to you and cares how you feel, it takes that kind of person for you to feel refreshed and start a new day.

What are you fighting about..or why?

anita