Duron,

Thank you so much for your reply and taking the time and efforts out to see my issues and helping me out.. so nice and kind of you…..Yes, It has been like that all along….My parents, always decide, what’s best for me, which is normal for any parents to do, when they want to see their only son to be happy and prosperous, even I have only one daughter, but I don’t do it with her.. I just let her be as herself, even in this age(she is just 7 years old).

I need more understanding and clarification on your last point.. which left me confusing(sorry about this).The truth is, if saying NO to someone changes how they react to you, then how genuine were they in the first place??? – How can genuine people do this? Believe me, I had people in my life whom, I was thinking to be genuine, since I might’ve failed to see who they really are… for what they really are… and they have taken me for a ride, when I said No to them, not by immediately punishing me, but punishing me in a very subtle, way, that I was not even able to make the difference out of it, through their behaviour with me after I said NO….

Thanks Duron, Thank you so much, your post has really helped me to think, I’m not the only one with the same issues and I have helping minds, souls and hearts which is ready to see me get through these tough times… Thank you so much…