Dear Ravi:

I just read your first two and a half line and before going further, I will comment on the amazing thing your parents often say: “If it weren’t for your grandma’s anger, we’d have given you freedom long back.”

This is a very meaningful statement, especially it being repeated often. What it means is that both your father and mother are prisoners of your grandmother. Even though both are way older than you, they themselves are prisoners of your grandma’s anger.

How can prisoners give you freedom? If they haven’t tried or haven’t been able to free themselves, how can they free you?

This is so powerful, their statement, that I don’t want to respond to the rest of your post at this point.

So telling….

anita