Hi,
First of all, sorry to interrupt this thread with a side-issue.
I read it a while ago and since I don’t have internet in my house, i didn’t find the time to reply yet.
I’m afraid that I don’t know how to contribute to your question about this man – i’m struggling too much about it myself.

@ Elletinker, thank you for writing you story about your work. I am very, very slowly starting to see how sensitive I am and how much the energy of other people influences me. I am struggling a lot with that at work, i found it interesting and helpful to read your post. I’m thinking to start an other thread to write about this, maybe to ask you or other people for you experiences – when I have more time. Anyway, thank you for contributing and helping me a little bit along in learning to cope better with different people in the workplace.