Dear Trevor:

Unfortunately most therapists are not competent. I didn’t come across a competent, caring, hard working therapist until I was 50 years old!

Reading your last post about how you see sex as a beautiful things intertwined with love makes me think how indeed attached you were to your high school girlfriend. Did you pay attention to what I wrote to you, about how your attraction to teenage girls, like any other feeling you have at any time, is not a weird thing, is not disapprovable?

We can’t help how we feel, it is automatic. We are responsible for your behavior, not for our feelings.

anita