Dear abigailmartin:

I am not surprised that trying “to fit the mould of other people’s personalities and traits, so that they would like me and I would eventually like them.” didn’t work for you, as it doesn’t work for anyone. And I tried it, and it failed for me too.

I learned that there is no substitution to me Being and Becoming my own self. If I try to fit to others, then if they like me… they don’t really like me, only my fitting-in. So I remained unliked by others and unknown to myself.

Please do share more…

anita