“I think not following through repeatedly what one says to a child who loves you is outside the definition of a good person.”

This. I have to protect their hearts. And even if he really WAS going to show up in 2 weeks and propose, this is something that would filter into a marriage since he is never willing to accept that he has issues.

So, I try to shuffle through my hurt and disappointment knowing it is what is the absolute best for myself and my children.