Hi Anita,

I’d honestly just like to thank you so much you’ve helped me a lot in seeing things clearly. As of now I’m feeling much better compared to where I was before, I no longer want her back. Recently I found out though that she started dating 3 months after we broke up. It’s a guy in her old school when she use to live in the Netherlands. After we broke up she went there to visit her friends and he was with them at a party (I know from our mutual friends) and two months later I found out he took her to prom and now they’re officially dating and in long distance…

I don’t want her back but this has me just thinking a lot. I thought she broke up with me because of the long distance? So she gets into another long distance relationship? Lol. I don’t understand. I’m thinking maybe it really was the flight and she just used the distance because it was an easy excuse. Already she’s telling him she loves him… etc… I mean I don’t know why but knowing she’s back in a long distance relationship in what I think is such a short amount of time (3 months, isn’t it?) really makes me feel like I did something wrong. Despite the fact she’s dating him, she continues to like my Instagram posts and she told me happy birthday on April 4th. I honestly don’t want to be with her again, but I do feel very guilty sometimes for missing my flight, and I don’t know if she was saying the truth about the distance or not. It seemed like she was, but everything that’s happened recently shows the opposite.