Dear Ravi:

It does make sense to me that she loved you and still has love for you because for three years she often expressed it to you. I trust that you accurately recognized it throughout that time. I also believe that she was okay with her love for you for as long as she categorized it as a sisterly love. Once that category was lost to her, all hell broke loose, in her mind. And now, I see no hope for you and her except if you do approach her father for her hand in marriage. And if he accepts. I see no other way. And if this scenario is unrealistic, then there is no future. I can’t tell the future, but logical thinking can lead you to a good proximity. 99% accuracy is way closer to a 100% than 1% and it is wise to build on the 99%, I believe.

The fact that you love her is very meaningful as to who you are, a loving person, faithful, loyal, persistent, trustworthy. This love story, most likely ended tells me you are such a man, and this love in you has not ended. It is something very special and beautiful as long as you see it as such. Am I too… romantic, thinking this way?

anita